This is the most excellent video I've ever seen regarding this topic. More women and girls are killed EACH YEAR from this than our soldiers at war. If you are in this situation, you are not stuck. You are not alone. You can get out, and you can make a difference for your future, and especially for the future of your children. You can do this.
You were created for love. I learned this beautiful truth from "Captivating" a book that Fabulous Husband gave me the first time we met in person, face to face by John and Stasi Eldredge http://www.christianbook.com/Christian/Books/cms_content?page=1086397&sp=71457
Deanne Bray's Rude Awakening
Beautifully signed in ASL and captioned, everyone should share this message. It should be shown in schools and in women's and men's groups, and discussed.
My friend Carol posted this comment on FB: http://ransomedheart.com/ http://ransomedheart.com/ they have some great books...also one on Marriage called Love & War